Both the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom are essential members of the wedding party. Their roles in the wedding celebration are recognized and appreciated.
If you’re the mother of the groom, you’ll play a significant role in the wedding party and may even get a mention in the couple’s vows. That means the wedding requires a unique outfit. Dress codes for the mother of the groom have also changed, which is good news. Matronly dresses were once the norm for the mothers of the bride and groom at weddings, but these days they are rarely worn. Mothers are now encouraged to dress in a way that boosts their self-esteem and sense of style.
The mother of the groom is responsible for a number of things, including organizing the rehearsal dinner and compiling the guest list for the groom’s family. Of course she will look stunning on the big day.
A touch of silvery grey to your wardrobe will do wonders for your style and sophistication. Having that extra sparkle and shine makes it look more high-end and trendy. This dress has a classic fit-and-flare silhouette and is embellished with dazzling beading all over the bodice, waist, and full skirt. Pair it with either high heels or flats for the wedding and a chic clutch for the afterparty.
Wedding Etiquette for the Mother of the Groom
Depending upon how much of a stickler for tradition you are, there may be etiquette rules your family members and guests must follow. These rules may include a few about the wedding attire for the groom’s mother.
Dress Etiquette
Mother of the groom, as stated before, is an important part of the wedding and should dress as such. The mothers of the bride and groom should wear matching or complementary gowns that are of the same style and length.
Talk to the bride and groom before you go shopping so you can get a sense of what they want for their big day. For a wedding with a soft, vintage theme, for instance, flashy dresses and distracting colors would be out of place. Dresses with low cut necklines, thigh-splits, or tight skirts are also inappropriate for the mother of the groom to wear.
The mother of the groom should feel free to express her own style and comfort within reason.
Spending time together trying on dresses is a great way to strengthen bonds
Nowadays, it’s common practice for the mothers of the bride and groom to go dress shopping together, using the experience as a chance to bond and get to know each other better. In some cases, the bride’s mother will join the bride and her attendants for a day of wedding-related errands and retail therapy, and the moms of the bridesmaids may join them for a special meal afterwards. This is a great way for people to meet one another, and it also guarantees that no one will clash with their outfit.
Color Dos and Don’ts
Dos
The options for a bride’s wedding theme and color scheme are virtually endless. Many brides’ moms choose to wear colors like:
- Blues
- Blushes
- Mauves
- Lavenders
- Mint Green
- Peach
Some grooms’ moms may feel more comfortable in darker colors, like gold, silver, or even black, for a more formal wedding. You could also wear shades of these other dark colors:
- Navy
- Green
- Purple
- Red
Don’ts
Just so you know, no one in the bridal party or the immediate family should ever wear white or any shade of it. You can’t wear any kind of beige or cream, even if it’s a neutral color.
While some brides might not mind, others might even insist that their bridal party wear white. However, it is wise to err on the side of caution whenever possible.
Wedding Attire Styles for the Mother of the Groom
It’s important to consider age, body shape, and the time of year when deciding on a dress style for the mother of the groom.
Body Form
Different dress shapes flatter different body types:
- V-necks and A-line skirts, with a nipped-in waist, can help someone who is wider at the shoulder and narrower at the hips, like an inverted triangle, look their best.
- Dresses with a fit-and-flare silhouette and tops with detailing or an off-the-shoulder neckline are great options for someone with wider hips.
- The risk of looking frumpy is greater in baggy or loose dresses for someone with an hourglass figure.
- Dresses that cling to the body might be the best option for someone with a rectangular figure.
However, remember that these are just tips and guidelines. It’s more important to make sure that whatever style of dress the mother of the groom wears, she feels comfortable and attractive.
Timing in the Year
There shouldn’t be any awkward moments during the wedding for the groom’s mother. That’s why you should think about whether the event will be held indoors or outdoors when picking out a dress. To give just one example, the mother of the bride can get away with wearing a casual sundress to an outdoor, summer beach wedding, but she should dress to the nines for an indoor, black-tie event.
Dresses in the cooler months can be accessorized with shawls, faux fur, and shrugs. The mother of the groom can stay warm and look great in a tailored jacket. Pantsuits are a great alternative to dresses when it’s too cold to show leg.
She could feel comfortable in both tea-length and cocktail-length dresses during the season of spring, which is typically warm in most parts of the world. Additionally, tea-length dresses are perfect for the summer.
Age-Appropriate
Keep in mind that it is possible to be too sexual. Mother of the grooms should not wear anything too revealing, such as a low cut neckline, cleavage, or a short skirt that reveals too much leg. There’s no harm in asking the mother of the groom to dress modestly if you know she has a reputation for wearing provocative clothing.
The Final Pieces: The Accessories
No outfit is complete without matching accessories. For a mother of the groom, accessories might include:
- Small clutch purse
- Medium tote purse
- Stylish hat or headband
- Pretty necklace and earrings
- Bangle bracelets
You want her wedding accessories to highlight her personal style without stealing the show from you, so choose wisely!
She can always accessorize with a chic scarf or shawl if the mother of the groom isn’t happy with the neckline or length of the sleeves of her wedding dress. Both her modesty and her outfit are enhanced by this addition.
Dressing the mother of the groom for a wedding is not difficult. She will be able to find the perfect dress once they have decided on a theme, color scheme, and location.
